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God's Forgiveness || Friday Magnify

October 08, 2021 by Amy Parsons in Motherhood, Family, Gospel

"Oh, magnify the Lord with me,
And let us exalt His name together."
Psalm 34:3

Every now and then I am overwhelmed by the responsibility of being a parent. All of my failings and shortcomings are on center stage, and I am plagued with doubt. How can I do this well, when I feel like a total mess? How will my children grow up knowing the Lord, if I give them a poor example of a Christ follower? I know I’m not alone in wondering these things!

In response to this we often hear that we really aren’t that bad, or that God will never give us more than we can handle. We receive some platitudes and move on. Or, we look at our failures and dramatically exaggerate them and think we are just the worst.

Well, sometimes we moms really are that bad. We do sin, and those decisions have consequences. Other times, we have messed up but the solution isn’t a good ol’ pity party that is nursing our pride. And sometimes, God surely does give us more than we can handle - ever looked at Job, or Nehemiah, or Paul? The point isn’t what we can handle, the point is that God is strong and worthy of glory. We have chances to learn our need of Him, and we see Him strong through our weaknesses.

So as I sit and mull over the week, I’m reminded that He is so good regardless of my shortcomings. He brings me back to the foot of the cross, where I humbly ask forgiveness and am given yet another fresh start. He reminds me that my kids need to see this repentance-and-forgiveness cycle in action; they don’t need to see a mom who pretends to never sin. They need to see a mom who asks her Lord, and her family, for forgiveness and then tries again. They need to see that mistakes brushed under the rug only breed more sin, instead of effectively dealing with them straight on.

How grateful I am for His forgiveness. I don’t deserve it, yet He gives it in abundance. It truly yields the best life. I am grateful for the best Teacher, that I might learn and then pass on this knowledge to my children. I am grateful that I can pray and ask the Lord for help, in my own life and in regard to my children. He is so good!

“Blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven,
Whose sin is covered.”
Psalm 32:1

Amen!

October 08, 2021 /Amy Parsons
forgiveness
Motherhood, Family, Gospel
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Legalism, Obedience & Zeal

October 03, 2021 by Amy Parsons in Gospel, Scripture

Legalism. We cringe at the mention of it, envisioning strict rules and regulations and hidden sins. Webster’s Dictionary describes legalism as “strict, literal, or excessive conformity to the law or to a religious or moral code.” We likely all have seen legalism in action. It can dampen our desire to pursue Christ; many unbelievers even use it as an excuse to not put their faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. It seems that there has been much emphasis on shunning legalism and fleeing from it over the last handful of years.

And perhaps in all of the shunning, we have gone too far in a different direction. Perhaps we have swung too far in trying to avoid legalism that we’ve forsaken actual obedience altogether.

Legalism and obedience are often confused and thought to be the same thing, though they’re very different. We can see legalism with the Pharisees, as they prioritized rules and works over true repentance and desire to serve God. This happens today - maybe we even do this in our own lives. We can go to Bible studies and host people in our homes and tell others what they need to do, all without any personal repentance of sins and humility before God. We can look at people who actually do live legalistically, and think, there is no way I want to be like that! and thus run away from anything that could be taken as legalism.

In contrast to legalism, obedience to God is faithfully doing what the He asks of us even if we don’t fully understand. It comes from a heart desire to follow Him in all aspects of life.

We have run too far in our move away from legalism. An general view of Christian culture today, at least in America, shows that true obedience is frowned upon.

“I just want to be a wife and mom,” says a school-aged girl.

What’s the response? Oh honey, don’t settle for that. You can have a career, too!

The woman who stays home to teach her children and manage her household? Laughed at.

The woman who refuses to gossip? She’s holier-than-thou.

The parents who bring their children to church instead of Sunday soccer games? Scoffed at.

Instead of obeying the Lord, we can cave to pressure and decide that a better use of our time in life is to adopt some of the world’s ways and mock those who take Scripture seriously.

“But as for you, speak the things which are proper for sound doctrine: that the older men be sober, reverent, temperate, sound in faith, in love, in patience; the older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things — that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed.”
Titus 2:1-5

This is an excerpt of what Scripture says for us as women.

This tells us that an obsession with wine is not obedience to the Lord. Talking down to or about our husbands is not obedience. Complaining about our children, allowing the house to be in constant chaos - this is not obedience.

The other day, my husband and I were talking about zeal and legalism. According to Webster’s, zeal is “eagerness and ardent interest in pursuit of something: fervor.” One significant difference between zeal and legalism is the fruit that each yields. Zeal comes from a deep desire for obedience, a longing to please our Savior. It yields the fruit that come from the Spirit of God: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Legalism can produce poster board cutouts of these fruits without having any substance or aroma to them. In reality, they rot and stink.

J.C. Ryle outlines zeal wonderfully:

“Zeal in religion is a burning desire to please God, to do His will, and to advance His glory in the world in every possible way. It is a desire which no man feels by nature - which the Spirit puts in the heart of every believer when he is converted - but which some believers feel so much more strongly than others that they alone deserve to be called ‘zealous’ men…. A zealous man in religion is pre-eminently a man of one thing. It is not enough to say that he is earnest, hearty, uncompromising, thorough-going, whole-hearted, fervent in spirit. He only sees one thing, he cares for one thing, he lives for one thing, he is swallowed by one thing; and that one thing is to please God. Whether he lives, or whether he dies - whether he has health, or whether he has sickness - whether whether he is rich, or whether he is poor - whether he pleases man, or whether he gives offense - whether he is thought wise, or whether he is thought foolish - whether he gets blame, or whether he gets praise - whether he gets honor, or whether he gets shame - for all this the zealous man cares nothing at all. He burns for one thing; and that one thing is to please God, and to advance God’s glory. If he is consumed in the very burning, he cares not for it - he is content. He feels that, like a lamp, he is made to burn; and if consumed in burning, he has but done the work for which God appointed him. Such a one will always find a sphere for his zeal. If he cannot preach, work, and give money, he will cry, and sigh, and pray…. If he cannot fight in the valley with Joshua, he will do the work of Moses, Aaron, and Hur, on the hill (Exodus 17:9-13). If he is cut off from working himself, he will give the Lord no rest till help is raised up from another quarter, and the work is done. This is what I mean when I speak of ‘zeal’ in religion.”
Practical Religion, 1959 ed., p. 130; Bishop J.C. Ryle

May this be an encouragement to you today. I especially hope this quoted section inspires you to be zealous for the Lord and His will; it certainly stirred me when my husband shared it. May we strive for a life of obedience, it is a joyous way to live!

Soli Deo gloria!
(Glory to God alone!)

October 03, 2021 /Amy Parsons
obedience, legalism, zeal
Gospel, Scripture
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Cheerful Givers

September 25, 2021 by Amy Parsons in Homemaking, Hospitality, Marriage, Motherhood, Scripture

“But this I say: He who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound toward you, that you, always having all sufficiency in all things, may have an abundance for every good work.”
2 Corinthians 9:6-8

God loves a cheerful giver, and He has given us mothers ample opportunities to practice and get good at it! When little Susie walks into the kitchen and asks for a cup of water, we have the choice - pour her a glass (or plastic ;)) and hand it to her with a smile, or begrudgingly get up while making a fuss over having to get her something again.

We can give of our time with a cheerful heart. We can use our words to cheerfully give encouragement. We can offer smiles, something that seems so rare but that can be multiplied into great reward. We can share produce from our gardens, cut flowers from our flower beds, jars of homemade tomato sauce or salsa.

Certainly throughout history, cheerful givers have been valuable to society. And I would argue that right now, they are of much importance. The need for cheerful givers is great! As I’m sure you’ve noticed, most people are looking out only for his/her own interests. It throws people off when someone offers help, or gives something with no strings attached. What a light this can be in a dark place!

What’s more, when we have a habit of giving cheerfully, our children notice and begin to do the same things. This is surely a great gift from the Lord, to see our children walking in His ways!

We are often tempted to think, There is no way I can give; I have no means. But we must re-read the passage above. “God is able to make all grace abound toward you, that you, always having all sufficiency in all things, may have an abundance for every good work.” God has given freely to us, and He will be sure to provide us the means to give freely to others. May we get to it!

September 25, 2021 /Amy Parsons
giving, cheerful giver
Homemaking, Hospitality, Marriage, Motherhood, Scripture
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Cast Your Burden

September 08, 2021 by Amy Parsons in Faith, Scripture, Prayer

“Cast your burden on the Lord,
And He shall sustain you;
He shall never permit the righteous to be moved.”
Psalm 55:22

David wrote this Psalm in light of friends who had turned on him. His heart was “severely pained” and he wanted to fly away and escape (vs. 4-8).

Are you in a time of pain and hardship? Are you facing struggles with relationships, or another hard trial? Maybe you wish you could escape it and be removed from the challenges.

Amidst your hardship, cry out to the Lord as David did. Cast your burdens upon the Lord - tell Him your struggles, ask Him for help and comfort. Receive His help and comfort by reading His Word.

Our God is so merciful and understanding. He is kinder than we are, more gentle and longsuffering than we are. He has exactly what we need, when we need it.

“No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly” (Psalm 84:11b).

First, may I point out - we are to be right before Him. Ask Him to expose sins, and then repent quickly. Be done with the sin and move on with His forgiveness.

Second - what you have, He has deemed good. What you don’t have, He has also deemed good. The struggle you are facing? It is for your good. “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28). If you love Him, every season of life is for your good and His glory. Trust this promise with childlike faith; trust it simply.

Third - ask. Ask, and let Him guide you with what to ask. Sometimes we know we need to come before Him in prayer but we don’t know what to say. Go anyway, dear friend. He will not turn you away. In humility, be liberal in your asking of Him. In time He will turn your focus exactly where it needs to be, and you will see His lovingkindness toward you.

“How precious is Your lovingkindness, O God! Therefore the children of men put their trust under the shadow of Your wings” (Psalm 36:7).

September 08, 2021 /Amy Parsons
prayer, need, burdens, anxiety
Faith, Scripture, Prayer
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