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A church in North Carolina following Hurricane Helene.

It Is Well

October 07, 2024 by Amy Parsons in Faith, Prayer, Scripture

He got the news from his wife, “saved alone…” Their four daughters had drowned, pulled out of their mother’s arms by the strong current. Only she had survived. Not long before, the couple had lost their only son. All of their children, gone in the blink of an eye.

As he traveled to meet up with his wife, he passed the place where his daughters had lost their lives. Grieving, he tucked himself away and began to write.

When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.

It is well with my soul,
It is well, it is well with my soul.

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control,
That Christ hath regarded my helpless estate,
And hath shed His own blood for my soul.

My sin—oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!—
My sin, not in part but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!

For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live:
If Jordan above me shall roll,
No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life
Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul.

But, Lord, ’tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait,
The sky, not the grave, is our goal;
Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord!
Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul!

And Lord, haste the day when the faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,
Even so, it is well with my soul.

Horatio Spafford wrote this poem in the late 1800s, and it was turned into a song that is still sung today. Amy Carmichael once said, “a cup brimful of sweetness cannot spill even one drop of bitter water, no matter how suddenly jarred.” Surely Spafford was suddenly, intensely jarred - and sweet water was spilled.

If you are jarred, dear Christian, what will you spill? When the waves of life jostle you to spill a drop, or many drops - will the water be bitter or sweet?

If it be bitter, take heart. Repent and be comforted by His forgiveness. It is hard to imagine spilling sweet water after devastating loss, such as Spafford experienced. Sweet water from the depths of our beings must come from complete satisfaction and trust in our Lord. It cannot be manufactured on our own; there will be trials far beyond what we can muster strength and grace for.

Has He saved you? Taken your sins and nailed them to the cross, that you bear them no more? If He can conquer this feat, He is trustworthy for all the rest.

He who made the stars, does He not know the hairs on our heads? He who tells the wind to blow, the sun to shine - does He not see our frames and know our trials before they arrive? “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28). Rest in Him.

When peace, like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say,
It is well, it is well with my soul.

October 07, 2024 /Amy Parsons
hurricane, grief, praise
Faith, Prayer, Scripture
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Pizza Night || Friday Magnify

August 30, 2024 by Amy Parsons in Homemaking, Hospitality, Motherhood, Prayer

“Oh, magnify the Lord with me,
and let us exalt his name together!”
Psalm 34:3

Just like that, it’s Friday again. Another Friday, another pizza night. Chopping peppers and shredding cheese, rolling out dough and spreading sauce - mundane yet a little miraculous.

Somehow, the food that takes hours to make gets swallowed in minutes and we watch. We watch little people get taller, muscles grow stronger.

Somehow, the conversations that happen in those short minutes help build their foundations and frameworks. Their questions deepen, their observations broaden.

Suddenly, the tasks that can seem almost insultingly simple and repetitive appear nourishing in more ways than one. When did they learn this or that, or arrive at that specific conclusion?

We plod along, meal after meal, knowing it all leads somewhere and enjoying the ride. What a gift to be involved in God’s work of feeding bodies and souls.

August 30, 2024 /Amy Parsons
Homemaking, Hospitality, Motherhood, Prayer
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The Thief of Joy

August 22, 2024 by Amy Parsons

Comparison is the thief of joy. A saying we’ve all heard, haven’t we?

We know joy is to be had. It is a fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22), and something to be sought after. Time and time again in the Psalms we see instructions to rejoice and be full of joy. In Psalm 32, David proclaims God’s goodness and salvation, ending with an exhortation to “Be glad in the Lord and rejoice, you righteous; and shout for joy, all you upright in heart!”

Does comparison get in the way of joy?

This morning I was reading through Philippians and came to chapter four, verse eight: “Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy - meditate on these things.” As we learn which things are true, just, and pure we are then able to spot what is false, unjust, and impure. Are those not comparisons, and necessary ones at that?

There are many instances in Scripture where comparison is necessary and good. In fact, it helps lead us to make wise judgments. But comparison can easily turn into sin, and thus keep us from joy, when we allow it to it to lead us into discontent.

Think for a minute… Does someone have a well-kept home? Rejoice, and encourage her for her hard work - or allow yourself to become cranky that she somehow manages better than you. Does someone else’s husband have a higher paying job than yours? Praise God that they are taken care of - or start belittling your husband and making everyone miserable by complaining about what you don’t have. We can see how this works!

It’s not comparison that wreaks havoc, but discontent. Discontent, truly, is the thief of joy.

“Now godliness with contentment is great gain.”
1 Timothy 6:6

August 22, 2024 /Amy Parsons
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The Gift of Time || Friday Magnify

August 09, 2024 by Amy Parsons in Faith, Family, Motherhood

“Oh, magnify the Lord with me,
and let us exalt his name together!”
Psalm 34:3

The pot full of dill caught my eye, and I plucked a stem and spun the flower between my fingers. I hadn’t planted it myself; my six-year-old son had dumped way too many seeds in a starter pot, months ago, and per usual they all sprouted. I laughed, thinking of his natural green thumb. Even the morning glories he had placed along the fence were forcefully pushing their way through the weeds I’ve been neglecting.

As I watch my children grow, it amazes me to see that everything they are has been there since the beginning. One boy studying nature, and trying to defy gravity every chance he gets. One who is forever building, with all the things, and asking all the questions. And though we will always be learning about each child, the interests of our younger two are still emerging. One tells me about animals as he’s gaining words in his vocabulary. The baby (yes, there are four kiddos now!) goes with the flow and grins and speaks his mind when needed.

Each stage with each child is new and exciting. Each child is similar to those dill seeds, formed with all their potential right from the beginning. Time is a beautiful thing, a gift to watch each flower bloom.

August 09, 2024 /Amy Parsons
Faith, Family, Motherhood
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